Is That SOO? Preseason Special with Coach Lee Hopkins

Season #3

This is a Season 3 Pre-Season Bonus:

I am happy to have my first Transgender Guest and fellow traveler on the "Is That SOO?" podcast, Coach Lee Hopkins. Coach Lee says this episode isn't just for members of the LGBTQ community. It is one for everyone. Coach Lee brings an authentic perspective and testimony of his journey, physically, mentally, and spiritually, to finding his authentic tribe. 

"Coach Lee Hopkins (he/him/his) is a transgender man who helps people create lasting friendships. After struggling with loneliness most of his life, he's tried various ways to resolve it without success. However, on his journey to make friends, he discovered that the more he learned about himself, the better he was able to connect with others. He’ll show us how this is possible for everyone."



0:09 - The theme for this episode is “Shadow Work”.

2:24 - First transgender guest on the podcast . . . 

6:59 - Finding a tribe in Chicago.

14:38 - Rejection is the cosmic response to the type of protection we need.

17:56 - If he had said anything else to me, I would have been so desperate to feel less lonely to feel accepted by people.

22:13 - How do you create an environment that’s affirming enough to assist a trans person?

28:27 - What’s so threatening about women and black men?

32:03 - How do you feel safe?

36:50 - The fear is a fear of the unknown.

41:02 - How to operate in love without sacrificing love.


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