Harry Turner 0:05
Welcome seekers of truth to another season of "Is That SOO?" Here we embark on the journey together a quest not just for answers, for the right questions that lead us to the core of who we are. Season Four unfolds with many insights and revelations that challenge us to peel away the facades and meet our authentic selves. Let's be illuminated, transformed, and indeed become lit. The knowledge of our true selves. Welcome outlier. What's going on on outliers? coming to you with another Hot enlightening episode, I had to get that the debt counselor
Harry Turner 0:47
I don't know about y'all, but this is studying music for me. I love this music. That like the spicy you know, just enough. Pelle NT and but on today's episode, I have a special guest, Luke. Luke, Deighton. Kane, he's coming on to talk to us basically. He's an Outlier. So he's gonna come on oh, hold on a second, hold on a second.
Harry Turner 1:36
leads this nasty, nasty beat all right. All right. Let me get to it. So again, Luke Deighton, and he's coming to us as a special guest. He says, and I quote, "living life as a full time genius. And giving back more than I receive, so that the soil I grew from, is more fertile. For those who comes next." The man said full time genius. So I'm asked him about that. Is that self proclaimed? Was this some type of meeting that I did not receive an invite to where he was awarded the title a full time genius? Is that a true that he's accepted as a relative for him? So I haven't had a question about the full time genius thing. But he also his background, I'll tell you all is in the corporate big business world. And it has given him a great insight into both the positive and the negatives of that world. And he now leans on that to bridge the gap between the corporate structures, and the spiritual service provider space. I'm curious, I'm gonna be honest, I don't really know much about my brother right here, outside of, you know, how I contacted him, I did my research and whatnot. But he's gonna, he's gonna get on here, and he's gonna throw it away, he flows. But I don't know much about him. But I'm interested about that bridge that he talked about between the corporate structures in the spiritual structures, because as you all know, I bridge the gap between the mental and the spiritual. And if you don't know and is your first time listening to me, I believe that the physical is a manifestation of spiritual truths. So if you really want to understand the spiritual, all you have to do is look at the physical, I mean, truly be in the present moment with the physical, absent interpretation, which is a challenge. So you have to remain in that state of observation, because the mind will observe something and then make an interpretation on what it observes. And then it calls that a truth. But in reality, it's just an interpretation. And because the mind always looks behind and not forward 95% of again, what we see in the present is constructed based off of the past, because it sees in hindsight, it doesn't really have good foresight. And so when you drop down from the mind, go from your head down to your heart, and begin to really explore that in a world. That's when you begin to see these events in your life, the interpretations that you're made throughout life, you begin to see that that was actually not accurate. It was more distorted based off of the experience that me was having the pain body. And so again, I don't I'm not going to go on much further on that. But I believe that he's going to bring some valuable insight otherwise, I would not have invited him on. And if he does not, I'll just trash this episode. I'm just I'm joking. I'm joking. But again, let me welcome Oh, no, no, no, I still have a little bit more about him. He's an ex mining supervisor from ages of 21 to 29. And one of the world's largest alumni, alumina, excuse me, alumina refineries. After the birth of his first son, they started talking his wife and in Him, they begin to ask the question of whether they were happy With the way the world was going, and their answer was no. And so they had the choice to either sit back and hope it would shift in a direction that was aligned with them or go out and create it themselves. So this is very interesting, very interesting already, my focus shifted from being his focus my being his, his focus shifted from being a part of the consumer machine to creating conscious entities that give back more than they receive, to tapping into his genius. Living it full time and inspiring others to do the same. Again as we are liberated from our own fears are very presence gives others permission to do the same. And if you have not heard the quote by George Bernard Shaw, the reasonable man adapts himself to the world and the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to Himself. Therefore, all progress depends on the Unreasonable Man, you got to be an outlier when the structures don't work for you when it's no longer in alignment for you. And you see that all these structures has already been created. They are not truly in alignment with who you are. Now you've got to go outside of the box. You got to engage in the right side of the brain and create something from nothing, but it doesn't come from nowhere. It comes from that realm above of what's possible for you in your life. See, just reading this man's background has given me all types of aha that I'm sharing with you so I'm not going to say another word I'm going to bring him on so he can introduce his damn self welcome to the stage Mr. Luke Dayton.
Luke Deighton 6:33
Already how i Brother thanks for having me man. Thank you Well, Bobby an intro by the way music words was awesome sitting there having a party by myself but glad to be a part of the big party now and I speak with you and maybe your audience.
Harry Turner 6:45
Yes, sir. Welcome to the IS THAT SO set and is that sonus? Forgive me? I did not say this backstage. But they did. That isn't it sonus is all about being in that state of neutrality where we suspend judgment. Like I was saying earlier, you know, that interpretation that we make, and we call it a truth, the mind was designed to think and not know. And so it thinks via interpretation and calls that the truth based off of what it knows. But the more that you know, the more you realize that you don't know.
Luke Deighton 7:17
Surgery rather so sure. But
Harry Turner 7:20
please, please introduce yourself to the people, you know, let them know a little bit about you, you know, if you've missed anything, and let him know about your passion, man. Yeah,
Luke Deighton 7:28
beautiful. So Mark, my passion really, really covered it really well. And that really just helping people I thought helping people anchor into their genius, figuring out what they're here to do what's true for them in their heart, and then express that in the world. And do that sustainably do that in a place where it's not, you know, for a long time in my life, I was so of service to others. And it was really to plating and it wasn't really nourishing at all, I wasn't truly alive. In my heart, there were aspects of it that were aligned. And there were pieces of the puzzle that really fitted. But there were certain aspects that weren't and they were draining and like, resentment grew. And I had to really step back. And just like I said, in the intro, when Elijah was born, and we started to really think about what it is that we're helping create in the world are we along with that and everyone has a choice, we all have a choice, you can choose to follow the path your heart, you can choose to follow the path of the mind and stay in that space. And so we had that choice to really go now. Like it's true for us to step into our hearts is true for us to lead this for ourselves. And in turn, as our light starts to shine, we in turn inspire other lights to shine as well and bring more light into the world. And, and that's the path that we're on. So we created crown omega, which is our overarching body, I guess for all of our projects to feed into ground Omega has a mission statement of creating homeostasis of mind, body and soul. And really inviting people into that space of whatever is aligned for them, whatever is true for them and this physical representation of this lifetime. And that's what guides us in all of our projects, we have a number of different projects that all fit into that which I'm sure we'll probably dive into in a little bit. But it's been a it's been a wonderful journey stepping out of that very much consumer production mindset of the mining world. And it's very much just take right it says take the resources planted with the resources from the earth and create something that brings people happiness and joy, you know, aluminium and alumina is, is used in so many of the things that we use in this physical world. But what's the greater picture? What was what are we actually creating what are we actually energetically bringing into the into the world that wasn't aligned for me and so we stepped away from that and it's been a great starting point from a communication point of view from a leadership perspective and just being able to bring those those structures that do actually work and and to create, scale and create impact and doing it in a more hardline and conscious way. I talk about all of our all of our projects as being living entities like each project, we're just, I'm just a custodian of that energy. And I hope to express that in the world and that channels remain on the news for that energy. You know, if I ignore it for too long, then that energy is going to go and find someone else to bring into the world. And so always sort of refer to myself as a custodian of the of the projects that we're in from that belief that all of our projects or entities, rather have their own energy, and they want to express in a certain way in the world. And we just have to do
Speaker 1 10:18
that. All right. So I'm the average Joe, Joe Average. And I walk up to you, and I say, I love what you said there. What the hell can you actually do for me?
Harry Turner 10:32
What would you tell Joe Average. So
Luke Deighton 10:35
what I'm going to tell Well, what I can do for the Joe Average, is really anchor them into their heart space, understand what's true for them, and what their genius actually is, and then support them and bring that into the world. My gifts lie in really tight, like being able to hold that vision and that end result and being the anchor to it for them. So that when their resistance comes up, when that ego that mind that you spoke about comes up and wants us to play small, wants us to stay where we are all of our beliefs, and that come up having someone in your corner to be able to pull you through. And that's what I do in a one to one space. from a business point of view. I help align businesses create greater scale and create greater impact through their structures, bringing that streamlining all their structures, assisting them in their marketing space, and really coaching them in that your business is alive. Let's understand what it wants to express in the world and be super aligned with that. And allow your unique genius at the custodian of that to express itself as well. And that's when we create great momentum and great scale. There's when we're in our authentic truth, we can feel that people can resonate with it. And that creates a momentum that's really unstoppable once it starts to flow.
Harry Turner 11:41
And dig in, which is saying, and I hear you the corporate structures, which I'm going to ask you about. And just a second, but you keep mentioning truth which this season, I say from the first episode, I really want to explore this concept of truth and living in truth. Because for the 2024, and maybe beyond, it's about the lit effect for me, which is elevating perspectives from eye level to Sky level. And so lit represents live in truth. When you live in truth, then you become lit for life. And so now you lit up. And like you said and looking at something I quoted many times Marianne Williamson, a poet I've quoted many times, as we are liberated from our fears, our very presence gives others permission to do the same. So it sounds like you know, when you were flowing the way you were flowing, it sounds like you've allowed yourself to embody to be the embodiment a vessel for that transfer of liberated energy, that freeing energy, you know, becoming more and more freer. So, man, um, yes. Okay, it's flowing. You have anything to say before I go to my first questions. I have some questions for you. Nah, man, hit me with them. Let's do it. Okay, okay. Well, actually, that's my second question. I asked about Joe Average earlier, but understand the corporate structure. So bridging this is pertaining to bridging the corporate and spiritual worlds, navigating the integration of corporate structures with spiritual practices must present unique challenges. Could you share how you've managed to bridge the seemingly different worlds in your ventures?
Luke Deighton 13:12
Hmm, great question, right. First, the most important thing from a structural point of view for me is that the mindset piece, like a lot of small businesses that we work with the anchor at small credit, and creators who are just starting out and really wanting to step into that changes for themselves. They had this mindset that big businesses bad as not big business, that's bad, because the structures that work create a lot of good in the world, right. It's like a lot of the time, there's an aspect from the humaneness. Maybe it's greed, maybe it's been for profit rather than for service. That's where there's that whatever your definition of good and bad is, that's where that fear comes from. And for a lot of people that have that fear of then creating something similar, and being a part of the problem, rather than part of the solution. So the first thing that we do is really get tied in with that mindset piece of, if you want to create impact, if you want to create change, you've actually got to create a big entity, to be able to have the impact the audience to be able to go toe to toe with these larger corporations and larger businesses, right, because they've got all the tools in the toolkit, they've got all the finance, they've got all the money to be able to just keep pumping their message. So if you ever want to create sustainable change, and it starts by creating change in your own local community, and having that mindset of, well, I'm trying to create something big here and and that's the that's the first thing that we sort of tackle is that that limiting belief or that fear based perception of, I don't want to create a big business because energetically like you said, that subconscious latches on to that. And the mind will do whatever it can do to get you where you are, because it knows it can survive there and it wants to stay comfortable. That growth comes in the uncomfortableness and so we're shifting that mindset and that's, that's point number one. It's hitting that That was that guy's got a brother.
Harry Turner 15:02
Oh, yeah, I forget about the mute button I hear leaning into one's discomfort. I hear that going on. I also hear another quote that I often cite, which is planes fly against a wind that with it. Hmm. So I'm hearing healthy resistance, leaning into the discomfort, you know, facing your fears because freedom exists on the other side of your fears, again, outliers, these quotes that I say these are become my boundaries, my border, my my, the limits of of what is healthy for me the way I put it in. And that's what it consists of my boundaries. And so when I say these codes, such as sailboats are safest at the harbor, but they will never be able to remain docked. This is me, coaching myself, reminding myself of the truth, because fear false evidence appearing real. That comes from the scarcity mindset, the ego, the mind is super energized by fear. But when you move from your head down to your heart, you know that the heart is energized by love. So, in any choice, any decision, we're choosing from one of two things, either fear of love no matter what it looks like, that's really the ultimate choices that we're making. So when you choose love you choose you. You're choosing to be in alignment with truth, you're choosing to live your most authentic, intentional life. Y'all know, my mission is to assist others in developing the audacity to live unapologetically authentic. So this is my this is what he's talking about as my zone. Right? Yeah, you know, but, man, what else? That's good. Good. You had something you wanted to say. Oh,
Luke Deighton 16:32
man, I was just resonated with what you're putting down. That was that was hitting me. I was like, This is good. This is this is real good, man. Like, that's such a good message. Y'all could not have said it any better. Like that? Just hit me. So.
Harry Turner 16:44
Yeah, right, right. Yeah, man. It's the same thing. I'm feeling like, man. Okay. Okay. Let me jump back into this next question here. So from your perspective, see, I came very prepared for you, they're prepared. From your perspective, what are the tangible benefits the corporate world could gain from embracing more spiritual practices, or perspectives? Mm hmm. You have to bet.
Luke Deighton 17:17
Let's start with authenticity, and authenticity and the message of authenticity and their teams and their employees and allowing that truth or that the truth of the employee to come to the floor, is going to create the best environment for them to be their most efficient, be their most potent and to serve that entity to the greatest good of themselves. Right. And that's probably one of the biggest gaps, I think, is that there's a misalignment in the Think about what corporations are really about, and what big, most big businesses are for, they're for making money, they're for keeping their shareholders happy, and they're for profits. But they try and spin a lot of different messages. And so there's a misalignment of the truth that flows through their employees structure as well, because for a lot of the employees, and and this is cool, if this is where you're at, some people just want to be employees, some people just want to come to work, get paid and go. But for a lot of businesses, there's an issue with they have an issue with that, because they're not improving, they're not being they see that as an issue in self development. And almost as a, an issue with, they're not actually doing their best for the business. They're just allowed to show up and be themselves and do their job, and be of service to the highest quality that can be that's being of service to the business, that's what they're there to do. They're there to do their job and help that business make money. But, you know, with a lot of the, I guess, the weakness that's coming into the society and corporations that they have this agenda that they try and push upon their employees, and then this is like a misalignment of energy. And so like, I think there's so many different things that we could talk about here. But if businesses were just really clear on who they are, what they do, and they're authentic in that, and that allow that to flow through that people, and that people are allowed to do the same, they would be in alignment that would create a greater environment for success. Mm
Speaker 1 19:02
hmm. You got me going off my prepared questions here for a moment. So what would you say to the column influencer, that's doing the job of 30? By themselves? What would you tell them? As far as how would you go in and assist them?
Luke Deighton 19:23
The first question I ask them is what that love? What would that love, love it to be this situation, because when we have a picture of what we would love, we can work back from there, and we can take actionable steps towards it, they may find that what they love is I wouldn't want to be doing the job at 30. And there's something else for them and if that's the case, and that's their truth, and so I'd be I'd love to be the one that flips that switch for them. But if it's true for them to be in the position, they're in and stay there and then what would they love from that position? And what's the support that they would love? How would they love to show up and be in that space and, and really just come that you mentioned earlier, come back to that place of love, become that that place of love will be guided in the right direction, right, it may not feel like it at the time. And it may be difficult. There's that there's that difficulty in that uncomfortableness in the expansion. But we hold that end result of thinking about each law, each step that we take on this avenue delusionary ladder is met by a greater and greater level of resistance. But there's more growth on site. So if we can hold that and keep taking those steps and come back to that place of love, then yeah, that's that would be my message to them is what would that love? Let's stop there.
Harry Turner 20:28
Mm hmm. And from there, you bring them up through having that large dream, that large company that impacts being impact on the world, you know, just basically is just a, what I would say is, at least part part of that, that mission is to calibrate the frequency for me to calibrate the frequency of the collective, and get enough of us aligning on the same frequency because waves the height of the waves, part of what determines that is how many water molecules are oscillating to the same frequency, the warmer the more water molecules oscillating same frequency, the larger the wave, and so at the School of outliers, where I seek to be the vessel that can inspire other people, and we get enough water molecules beginning to oscillate on the same frequency that we become a tidal wave of radical love that forever changes the face of this planet. Yes. So I'm very much in alignment with the larger, exactly what you're saying. So you don't have the commercial money, and you don't have the, you know, in your work in the job. But you are aspiring, you're moving towards that. What would you tell that person that just needs that something to keep them like this something that's keeping them from that, you know, yeah, I'm gonna bring
Luke Deighton 21:49
it bringing it back to the basics of our day to day role, because we have that vision. And it's so easy to get, we got to keep it connected to that vision. And we got to keep our eyes on that vision and that larger pace, but we got to get the day to day, right. And we have to take actionable steps that move us towards that vision. And so one of the simplest processes I have is like a morning ritual, and where I reflect, and I just reflect on yesterday, and I asked myself, What did I learn yesterday? Was I in the Truth of My Heart more often than not, because there'll be times where I'm not right there'd be times where I do make mistakes, there'd be times where I do get it, get it wrong, and I want to, I want to reflect and I want to, like have that choice, okay, even if it's as simple as I didn't sleep very well, because I was dehydrated, okay, so I can choose to drink more water to that. I might not feel like I'm doing anything towards my business, but I'm making sure that I'm nourished, I'm making sure that I'm nourishing myself and, and make sure this vessel that I'm bringing this energy out into the world and is well looked after to can be. And that just puts me in that self improvement mindset of like, okay, what am I going to do today that's aligned with my business? What am I going to do? Because sometimes that may be if you're if you're living intuitively and your sense Canadians your heartspace every day and leading that allowing that to guide you, then that may be to go and nourish and for someone starting out that's trying to really bring this vision to life, you can get so caught up in the numbers you can get so caught up on being in the business, that you don't actually work on the business and working on the business is working on yourself as well, because it's you that's fueling that business. It's new that's fueling that energy. And so sometimes that intuitive guidance, maybe go eat an apple read a book under the tree, connect with the earth and just get back into your heart.
Harry Turner 23:34
Oh, yeah, yeah, I dig that. Oh, man. Okay, okay. I see you Babe Ruth, man, you're knocking him out of the park. Okay. Good, man. It's good stuff. Good stuff. So personal growth? No, no, no, no, I don't know how much. See we already 26 minutes in. Let me let me I'm gonna go for it. I'm gonna go for it. Alright. So personal growth and family life. So balancing personal aspirations, with family responsibilities. Your journey emphasizes the significance of fully committing to personal growth, while being deeply rooted in family life. How do you find equilibrium between pursuing your passions and fulfilling family obligations?
Luke Deighton 24:16
This is one of our biggest things that we're working on at the moment. Like, for me, personally, is getting that balance, right. And it's something that we're really working on. We've got, we've got Elijah who's nearly three now. He's got a and we've gotten our who's seven months. And so we're really focused in on creating that balance, not just for me, but for my partner and making sure that she's getting nourished as well, because now I have this theme of what am I one of my choices for my fam by that family with? Do I have a set of daily choices and I have a set of choices that are based on my big vision and the themes of that and so are poor choices from that and things that I can connect into and choose the end result of and one of that and one of those choices is having a really a golden fit Families structure that embraces the independent genius of like each of us. And whatever that facilitates to bring to that family structure as a whole. And so where we're probably struggling at the moment is where we have been struggling is allowing our lives my partner to nourish as well and find it and making time for that, while we're so focused on creating what we want to create. And so we're really juggling that at the moment. And it's probably our biggest, I'd say, it's our biggest thing that we're working on. It's, it's like an issue. It's not, it's not an issue, it's just a structure. That's what it is, it's a bigger structure, that would probably be out of alignment with currently from where we would love to be that we're working on. And so one of the things that I'm doing is really building into my scheduled time where it's just blanked out for a laser, I take the boys, on with the boys, I'm President, and she gets to go and do stuff that she wants to do. And we'd build in like monthly or weekly like times where it's just family time. And we try and really focus on that, because family is so important. I'm doing it for that. The end of the day, I'm doing it so I could spend more time with them. And I think we get lost in that occasionally as people if you're creating and focused on creating, you sort of get focused on creating what the end result looks like and what that family it looks like in the end result. And we get caught we get lost that we miss all those beautiful moments, like one of the biggest joys that I've had of moving out of that mining space is being able to work from home and having that flexibility to be there and be present. Don't, I'm so blessed to not miss the first mile, the first crawl, s bet such a gift. But also then had moments where I'm so caught up in that where I forget, and the boys just want my attention. They don't care what I'm doing like the three and seven months, they just want me they want my heart they want that, like they want the love. I don't I don't care about I've got this meeting or I've got this work that I need to get done. And so it's an ever, ever evolution and ever ending journey, I think of trying to find that balance, man, we're getting better at it. Sure.
Harry Turner 26:58
That's it. That's it anything I groin is dead, and we're gonna be growing into the day we transition into something else. Everything that we do as a practice, and whenever we practice becomes a program and anything we're doing is worth doing poorly in the beginning. And so it's all about skill building. You know, this is no doubt Allah has heard they hear me say this, often I drill certain things over and over, because I know the mind recognizes repetition. And so the whole saying of We Are we become what we do repeatedly. It's really this identification that the mind is making with this repeated act, because intentionality reflects relationships. So the more intentional I am about responding to this thing that I'm moving towards, the stronger the relationship, the more real it is for me, and that really is the only for me, at least my belief is that really is what separates it's this whole concept of time. It's really how real is it for me? Do I need certain requirements? Do I need to put certain clients on it before it's real? For me? Do I need to have a million followers before it's real for me, because I can I can be a follower of one, which is really the only one that's really needed, which is, you know, tapping into that, that inner being dropping down a heart and just operate from that space, regardless of the likes of the followers or whatever else like I'm already experiencing that. And when you experienced that we have attention goes energy flows, when you experience that you are calibrating your frequency to that because that is your energetic choice is just that we always respond or too frequently, the mind and it's survival, scarcity, mindset calibration, it causes us to stare at what we fear because it's energized by fear. But what we fear we end up attracting because we have attention goes energy flows, you know? Yeah, man. Ah, okay. All right. You had anything you wanted to play as my next question. I'll
Luke Deighton 28:54
keep rolling. Let's keep going. Join it.
Harry Turner 28:56
Okay. All right. I'm choosing wisely. So the genius portal and you can you speak more on that wait up from other way,
Luke Deighton 29:06
or Australia, so Western Australia, about two hours south of the capital city, Perth. So down in the Margaret River, right wine region. were sorted down in that beautiful, really lovely southwest lots of farmland lots of beautiful connection to nature forests, not too far from the beach. Beautiful space.
Harry Turner 29:24
Yeah, I was like, Wait a second. I'm pretty sure he's from Australia. But I saw it w a, in a meeting my mind went Washington, but I hear you know, hear your accent. And you know, at least from you know, American perspective. I hear you x and then I'm like, wait, no, he's from Australia. Why? Why? But it's West Australia. Yeah, Western Australia. Yeah. That's awesome. Okay. All right. So yeah, Brad, you can tell us a little bit about the genius portal and I'm in circle but I made a note the genius portal in the min circle represent innovative approaches to personal and communal growth. It's about building those communities. So in house, can you elaborate on the conception of these projects and how they contribute to unlocking individual potential? Yeah, beautiful,
Luke Deighton 30:08
great question. I'll start with the the men's work and the men's men's group and finished with the Chinese border, the men's space is really just about allowing men to come together and to be heard to be seen and just show up where they are, we sort of we create a space where we connect in with a group, we connect him with the breath, and we just support each other and being wherever and having a space where men can come together and and just know that they're supported and know that there's plenty of other brothers that are going through similar things, I think one of the masculine tried to obey in that order, or, like, sacrificing ourselves in order to provide for others is something that's so ingrained in us and it's pushed in society in a way, they're having these spaces where men can just come and chat and hang out, we do a bit of we do some with anchor into the space through like a ground roots meditation, connect into the breath, we energize, play, some games, go to where that competitive fire going. And then we do some mobility, and really just connect that in with that body so that we can have that place to come and just nourish ourselves so that we can be in better service and leading ourselves leading our families and leading our communities. That's what the men spaces is all about. And it's such a space that I think is so so important, especially in the youth culture is like in America, I'm not really a depth of that. But for us, here, it's very sporting orientated. And with that sporting orientation comes a lot of piety, it comes a lot of drinking, when you think about rite of passage. And we don't have a real rite of passage in Western society. But most people that's get to 16, such as and women start chasing parties start, you know, really focusing in on almost disconnecting substance and disconnecting from our heart. And then we get our license. And we're, you know, we're able to go and do what we want. And we're seen as men, whereas realistically, we haven't really been tested physically, we haven't been tested spiritually. And so we're, society sees us as men and expects us to make decisions as leaders and as for our life, and we never have that rite of passage. And so this is just creating a space for us to really connect back into that heart space with men and masculinity and understand that beautiful balance and the wave of the masculine and the feminine energies and have a space to come together. So that's the men's workplace and the genius portal.
Harry Turner 32:32
Like how you mentioned both the masculine and feminine energies. And this is, so I'm assuming this is these are in person groups. These aren't like online groups.
Luke Deighton 32:41
Yeah. Yeah, these are in person. Yeah,
Harry Turner 32:43
I might have standing if you'd like take the camera to yourself, and you know, like jogging over rocks and stuff.
Luke Deighton 32:49
But okay, it's basically to energize games with grapple a little bit just to get that competitiveness, you know, you think about our wired DNA wise throughout our lineage and our history, man would be out there physical, they'll come together in a campfire each night and really debrief. And we don't have that very often in society. So if you think about how important that was, from a survival point of view, if you miss that kill of that animal that you were hunting for, you had the opportunity to debrief that be supported by your, by your group by the brothers. process that so you can go out the next day and get it right. Whereas for us in society, where you know, it's not, we're not going out and hunting to kill most people, but we're doing things in our day to create what we want to create in the world. And there are times where we don't get it, right. But we may have a setback. And for a lot of us, we don't have that structure in place to be able to debrief and process that. So it doesn't linger in our mind. Because anything like you said the past, we don't complete on that and we don't process it, we're going to have energy leaking back. And so the energy that we have to move forward is less. And so it's so important to have that process and that structure to be able to complete, be able to come together to come back to yourself, come back to your body. And really just tap into, okay, that happened yesterday. That's cool. Let's go on our process that this is why this is some of the learnings that I've taken from it. I mean, step forward again, from the Truth of My Heart and, and go again.
Harry Turner 34:16
Mm hmm. Carl Jung, again, another familiar, a person that's familiar to my audience, because I quote him so frequently, until the unconscious becomes conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate. And you know, as a psychotherapist, even on providing therapy advice here, this is a separate business and influence and getting that word out there, you know, but in a, in my therapy practice, I tell my people, either you deal with your trauma, your trauma deals with you, you know, these these beliefs, these antiquated beliefs that we have, we're trying or not trying, but we're designing desiring to experience something new. And Einstein said that tomorrow's problems can't be solved with today's thinking. So you have to evolve. How can you evolve if you're still looking into the past, you know, like the past for reference not resident, so we refer to it because psychotherapy includes the person's entire life. But you can see early on that, when after that, that saturation period of being in a theta state, those first seven years of life, where we're just in the strongest state of being hypnotized and saturated and indoctrinated, we're vulnerable during these times. Those algorithms, those programs then result in this life pattern that you can see. And so another certification I have is as a heart centered Hypnotherapist. I'm a licensed clinical social worker, I have a cognate behavior group therapist, heart centered hypnotherapist I'm trained in internal family systems, I have like five other different coaching life coaching degrees, separate from practice, as well. And like CBT, and stuff like that mindfulness. But those letters are really for other people. It's not really for me, I just, you know, I got those because I was learning that anyway. So I say, why not get the letters and letters, people look at appearance, but again, the ego sees appearance, whereas the Spirit sees essence, you know, you don't you don't need that, you know, you don't anyway, I don't even identify with that. Because if he can be taken from you, then it's not it's not you anyway, so those letters are just on these anyway. Anyway, I said anyway, like eight times. The point is, that's I'm still saying the point is, is yeah, we have to deal with that, those subconscious programs and the conclusions that we made about ourselves in certain spaces, and then re structure that or recondition the mind to move from the negative to the affirmative, not just the positive, but the affirmative, you know, and when you do that, that affirmative is always going to be in alignment. You know, we spend so much of our life. I'm appalled after this, but we we spend so much of our life renting from our fears, that we don't realize that we're not actually moving away, but we move in towards it, because we have attention goes energy flows. And so whatever you fear, you attract, and whatever you persist, or resist continues to persist, because you're pouring energy on it. So it's self sabotage. And logically, it makes sense to run away from a thing. But energetically, you got to understand the energetics you got to understand the spiritual, that's why understanding the mental and the spiritual is so important. You know, even in my faith, there's a scripture in Romans 12, and two, it says, Do not conform to the patterns of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. It happens at that mental level, you got to be able to separate that, that the logic of the mind versus the truth of the heart, the facts of the mind, versus the truth of the heart, you know?
Luke Deighton 37:46
Yeah. 100%. So, such a fantastic, like, into the outer quote. Or the quote, like the recollection that you're having with these quotes is incredible. It's like
Harry Turner 38:04
well, thank you, man. I've repeated it enough times. Because also, I learned in my heart centered hypnotherapy training that all hypnosis is self hypnosis. And so I have to constantly not have to, I'm intentional about affirming because that mind will try to put you right back to sleep. You know. It's just like shaving your beard, I tell my clients. So in my practice, just like shaving my beard, I could shave my beard, and I could like the way I look. But if I never do anything else about it, then it'll go back to what it was. But I can say I really liked where I look. Well, I have to get up every day and examine myself and see if I need to shave. It's the same way with with operating in your truth. You have to get up every day, and make an intentional choice to move in your truth. Because when you connect your daily mission to your values based intentions, now you're lit up and the motivation becomes on autopilot. Because it's no longer dependent on how you feel. It's just who you are. intentionality reflects relationship. That's who I am. So I could hate it. You know, parts of me not want to do it, be afraid of it. But I know I still have to intentionally respond to it, because that's the coal. You know, man. Mm hmm. See, I'm saying man, it's a lot of a lot of synergy synergy going on here, man. And it's amplifying, again, something else that I've said before is when there's when the two are aligned. There's no losing in the share. And it's only an amplification of what's already there. And so I'm feeling amplified, the more that you speak, man, so I'm, I'm, I'm digging it. I'm digging it. Yeah.
Luke Deighton 39:37
Likewise, man, everything else is resonating. So like, yeah, so much alignment. And this goes back to that quote of like, I think one of the may diverge a little bit, but in that, we talked about our lightness and our lightness and encourages other light to shine and the mind starts this sort of like there's that catch point where sort of have that But if their light shines too bright, then my light will dim. And it's the opposite, like when someone else light shines, and when there's alignment, it inspires you to shine brighter, you know, their light removes more of the darkness, right? So that there's more space to shine. And so it just continues to pop up and more and more light keeps popping up. And it just inspires us to shine and resonate that frequency through at a higher level. Yes,
Harry Turner 40:23
darkness is not the opposite of light is the absence of light. And so just like that, your truth, when you move in your truth, that truth becomes that light, and the more truth that you accept, and that you pour over, filter through how you see yourself, it just, the darkness has to move, because now you're putting light on it. But you know, that awareness component, it always awareness is key. Ignorance and freedom can't coexist. And this is what I say, you know, the, when you move from ilevel to Sky level, essentially, you're moving from the passenger seat to the driver's seat of your destiny, you're taking control, you're taking control. And so instead of being driven, you're the driver now. And, of course, you're going to drive towards places that you actually love. Why would you drive towards places that you loathe? And if you're driving being driven towards places that you love that is because it's not your driving? It's the not you, which is the you that operates when you're operating in fear, the warrior version of Mario. You know, also saying Isn't this where everything is, and nothing is not the way that the mind works and what not everybody we know a thing by its opposite. And so we not only come here to understand who we are based off of our truth, but also through the shedding and removing of the blockage based off of us living in non truths. That darkness, you know, ignorance and fear can coexist, you know? All right, but I got one more, I got one more for you. I have a lot more for you. But I'm gonna ask you just one more. Hmm. Okay, once you've answered halfway through this, but community, again, fostering thinking about the topic of fostering individual potential and community through initiatives, community seems to be a central theme in your work, how do these initiatives specifically foster a sense of belonging and support among participants, what you were talking about with the group activities? And this latter part, though, and what transformations have you witnessed as a result in the men space,
Luke Deighton 42:32
the transformations we've just seen in that like that, that warrior that, that just truth of who they are starts to the shoulders go back and start to walk with purpose, you know, and there's this, the truth, and speaking what's on their mind, it just becomes like a structure. It's just it is just what it is, there's this like, like I said, before, there's just an awareness of it. And you have that mindset that when we create awareness, it no longer has as much power, we're empowered in that relationship with whatever that awareness is. And so we can make an intentional choice. I think that's one of the great transformations of that space in the men's work is that there's a connection and a transformation into the idea that this is my truth. And I can present that and I can be me and my genius. And it's okay, if not everyone resonates with it, but it's mine, it's my path to walk. And that's where that big shift happens in that man's space. And there's an acceptance of the brothers, you know, it's like, even if the modality or the way in which someone does something that doesn't fully resonate with you, if they're what they're doing is bringing truth into the world, or more genius or more light into the world, then you can still support it and be supported and be sane and create that community and connection. And then for the genius portal, just the biggest, the most fun and the most joyful transformations in that space. So just seeing people get out of that victim mindset of where they're putting their hands up in the air and just waiting for the universe or faith to take them for a ride. And they're becoming the predominant creative force in their life, you know, when they make that shift, and that awareness around everything in my life is a structure that's good or bad, or it's ugly. And I am the creator of that, when they make that shift, like the whole world changes because they understand that they It's a humbling realization to me, but it's also one of the most powerful realizations that you can make. Because then you have the power of choice. You can choose to stay in Port structures that are creating the things that you don't love. Or you can choose to go and make a difference. And you can make something, make a change and choose a different structure. You might not always get the right structure straightaway. But if you're intentionally choosing to find the right structure and the structure that suits the truth for your heart, and it's true for you, and they're the best transformations. We see it with our clients with a tie that with a genius portal we have we have courses and structures that align with the elements so we have gold or Water, fire, earth, air. And each one of those courses has that premise of becoming the predominant creator in that space and bringing awareness and intuitively and being intuitively LED and a hot lead in that relationship with that element. So that water is your emotional alchemy in the healing of your past traumas of self and, and becoming your own greatest healer, really, we all have that power within us to take responsibility of that trauma, see our partner, accept it, and then process it and move on. And you'd be very familiar with that in the work that sounds like you do as well. Gold is our business mindset and becoming really monetizing your magic and becoming that creating a sustainable income from doing what you love, and the structures that are in place with that and bringing structure to that because for a lot of people that are in that creator of being a service provided space, that's the hardest thing right of shifting your mindset from just being of service and giving, giving, giving, to actually receiving for that giving, and that being an exchange that serves both parties. You I'm sure your audience and you are familiar with so many people that give and give and give and don't get anything in return. And so gold is really around like finding the truth your heart finding and is what really lights you up and and then sustainably monetizing that so that you can continue to be of greater impact and continue to give more and more and, and make a life out of it. And then yeah, fire is our sensuality stuff in central essence and really tapping into that, that heart, real passion of the inner flame and sensuality and your relationships and your partners and, and coming at that from a place of love coming at that from a place of what I would love in this relationship. And yeah, it's a beautiful, there's something there's really solid for everyone at the genius quarterly, it's all centered around that heart, heart and intuitive living.
Harry Turner 46:53
Mm hmm. Again, a lot of synergy. There's there's different types of hypnotherapy there. But I was trained in heart centered hypnotherapy. You know, it's about again, you know, I've said before, but the longest distance any of us will take us from the head down to the heart. And I resonate with the five symbol, you know, I'm not into the whole horoscope thing like talking about I'm not like big, like a specialist and and but but I am a Scorpio and I do know that based off that profile is very, there's a there's an alignment with me and that profiles when you talk about that fire, that passion and yeah, yeah, I think it adds also to the way that I speak. Because I didn't know that I, my speech was unique, until I started doing podcast, and then get started responding to the way that I speak. And then I was like, Okay, if you hear this, this is because it's hard for me to see myself, it's been a challenge for me to see myself. So if you hear it over and over, this is something meant for you to accept, like, you have to accept this, this is part of your truth. You know, and so that that thing to like life is always conspiring in your favor, you just have to continue to look at these these, when a synchronicity happens, you know, these, quote unquote, coincidences, but you can see the significant events lining up, unrelated but perfectly aligned, you getting the message, not from linear reality, but from non linear reality like this is truth. To get the facts, I don't care what it looks like in your life, I don't care what way you live at what your income bracket is, what your gender, race, whatever, I don't care about any of that stuff, drop all of the positionality drop of all the old who you thought you were like Laos, who said it's only when I let go of who I am, that I've become who I might be. And so you have to let go of the who I am in order to become who they might be is you don't know who that might be is, you won't know when to let go of who I am. And so you begin to drop all of that you get that message from that nonlinear reality, hey, this is something to pay attention to. Like this is part of your like, this is a gift that I gave you. And this is part of your passion, because you also enjoy meeting with authentic people. And this is where you're discovering is that pay attention to this because you will need this as you continue moving towards your desires. It's like life says I got I have more for you. This is just this some things you have to see. You know and accept about yourself, you know, man,
Luke Deighton 49:20
there's a lot of fun. There's a lot of fun. Yes,
Harry Turner 49:23
yes, man. How were you always okay, this is off the list. And I know we had that point. But when did that click happen for you? Was it always there? Was it in the clique? Like we always, you know, growing and whatnot, and it took time for you to get to this point with the genius portal and whatnot. But that switch that said, basically, that Neo moment where you're looking and you're like all of this is coded. All of this is coded.
Luke Deighton 49:56
It was there my youth and I really pushed it back When I grew up really good in my head, I got into that, again, sports. And I was very much into basketball. And it was played at a higher level. And that was my focus. And I disconnected from my heart, I just went into that mind basic, like status, right. And then, finally enough, my sister who created the genius portal, she was studying to be a doctor, and then realize that that's true for her to help people, but not in that way. So she walked away from that and started doing this creative development page when and heavy with William Whitecloud, you might be familiar with Kenny, and learn from him and that creative development piece and really added leave intuitively and connect back into the heart and went on this big journey. And that started to pull me back out. And it really started to pull me back to the path of my heart. And then fast forward a number of years COVID Here, we had that first time. And that was like the real moment. Well, that Okay, time to shift time to, really, there's some, you know, I've always been in that mindset of that there's something else here, and I just haven't dived into it. And then that, like COVID here, and Elijah was born. And that was the real catalyst. And it was actually the women around me that the feminine. I'm a big believer in that understanding the balance of masculine and feminine. And there's times when you're in your masculine flow, and there's times when you're in your feminine flow, and I was in my heavy masculine for a long time and not good masculine. And then I went, then I shifted and went heavy into the feminine for a long time and struggled to find that balance. And I think a lot of us would probably resonate with that, that creating, creating, creating, but never ever saying anything through that it's really the masculine energy that has that drive, and that systems and that structures that finish the projects. And the feminine is that birth, nurturing creation. But it was the feminine and support around me that really went and said Now, like I could see, I was like addicted to coffee, run off four hours sleep a night, you know, then just really disconnected and couldn't see it. And it was the feminine support around me, my partner, my sister, and a mom that sort of went this is we can see your truth. We can see the light of your heart. Here's the path, they dragged me back to that path. And then it was up to me to turn and say to him, thanks. I love you. And I've got it from here. Yeah. Yeah,
Harry Turner 52:21
yeah. Yes. So it's always been there for you. Yeah. Within? Yeah. Yeah.
Luke Deighton 52:28
Like the council has been there. And that was just the catalyst. Yeah,
Harry Turner 52:32
yeah, that's right. It's very, yes. Very similar for me as well. And then sort of kind of suppressing it. Because, you know, I mean, if you are sort of kind of like the experience of if you'd only say in person in an asylum, you know, like, you know, yeah. And that's it, I guess I'll just,
Luke Deighton 52:52
I'll just and that's the beauty of the world we live in now with this tech and the Internet and the ability to connect with like minded people and not feel like it's not alone, because school sets us up to be the sheep, that sets us up to be just to fit in to follow the answers. This is what you do. This is how you do it, this is who you are. And we're in grind and have made that my one of my egoic dysfunctions is people pleasing. So that's been a big shift in like, being able to express my truth and stand in that, and not put as much energy into what comes back. And focus on the positive and focus on the impact and the connections like this, like this is a beautiful connection in our field, that brotherhood already, we're going to be talking about nonstop athletes can feel it. Yeah. That's the beauty of the world we get to live in. Now. I think, everything in life, we can look at the negative of it, or we can look at the positive of it, and how we can use it to bring more light into the world. And I guess that's sort of the core purpose of bridging those structures between the good structures of the Keshava world or the corporate world and that spiritual development space. Let's bring the best of both worlds together, and really use it to create impact and scale and change. Yes,
Harry Turner 54:08
yes. Man, I had so many aha moments, again, so many moments of like synchronicity. So some of the things I know we were about to jump off here. But life doesn't give you what you want. It gives you who you are. And we don't see things as they are but as we are. And so it's always about that in a world and then projecting that higher frequency based off of seeing, envisioning something different, wrapping onto your heart and seeing your truth, and then forming a vision based off of the substance of that truth, and then intentionally responding to that, until it collapses from potentiality and to an actuality via intentionality. Because whatever we do as a practice and what We practice we eventually become so as we continue to respond to it, what is a possibility eventually becomes an inevitable in in editability, excuse me, I'm always messing up when I work, inevitability based off of how strongly we respond, rooted in intentionality. That intentionality read a report many years ago, no forgot it, scientific report that said that it the title of it was intentionality is the matrix of transformational change. And the matrix, you know, I had to look it up. And the matrix represents mother. And so intentionality is the mother, that gives birth to transformational change. And so it's your C division, and then you choose, and then you attentionally respond. For me, that's where the faith comes in. Because you don't see the six pack on day one. But you have faith that if that's your goal, and you're doing, you're taking the steps towards it, that is going to show up the physical manifestation of spiritual truths. The vision may not manifest on day one, but you can see it, and if you can see it, then it's real. And the more that you look at it, the really becomes for you, and you move towards it naturally, just by staring at it. And that intentional energy, then becomes that power that manifested into your life. But it always begins with this internal world, because we truly do walk by faith. And so if we're walking by faith, and I don't believe in what it is, and I see you, I don't believe that I can have what it is that I see, or I can't, I don't have what it takes to experience my desires, and I won't move towards it. So those ingredients, they work and aligning thought, word and deed, you know, this is what I tell my people align thought word, indeed, when you do those things. Now you're you're you're basically just one, you're the embodiment of manifesting energy, nasty ingredients. Gandhi, which a lot of peace controversial now, but he wasn't when I was younger. But you know, one of the things he said that I held on to is that happiness is when, when we say to incite go on harmony, on that same concept of happiness is what when what we say, do and think are in harmony, and then happiness is not a destination to be reached for the way we travel. It's about traveling in alignment, like living in truth being lit up. That's it, you know? Yeah.
Luke Deighton 57:12
Yeah. What's the point otherwise, right, joys, happiness, joy, it's got to be the point, right? Would love your life and live it that way? And it's so much more fun.
Harry Turner 57:22
Yes. And that's where you hit the yellow button. I see people who the yellow button way too soon, they hit it, when they don't really they they not tapped in to like the heart space. And so they go yellow, and they do dumb stuff based off the mind. Look, the mind is always gonna send you straight into a tree. But when you drop down to that heart, and then you see that, and you feel inspired by that, like you see that this is you that truth when it when you when you accept that truth, that truth makes you free, you you become you begin to embody that energy. And in that space, when you see your vision, then you move and say, Yo, look, man, you only live once. Why not do it your way? That's one of my favorite songs my way? Like, why not do it your way? You know, live life your way only you can do you like, again, Dr. Seuss, you are you that's truer than true. No one in the world can be you or than you like you. You're the only person that could be you. So why not be you know, authentic. Not even twins have the same old triplets or quadruplets have the same fingerprints. So we're all designed to be uniquely us. All of us were designed, essentially made to be outliers. But they tried to fit us into a box. And you were talking about the schooling system. Again, I've said You know, we go through this formal system in the States and we go from kindergarten to first grade, second grade, and we go through the grades until we get to 12th grade. And then we have something called a graduation. The very word graduation can be seen as a combination of the words gradual, and indoctrination. You've been gradually indoctrinated into the institutional way of thinking,
Luke Deighton 58:52
I've never made that connection. And that's just
Harry Turner 58:55
oh, you put it in your face, they get America to call this machine that we spent so much time in front of a television where they literally telling us a vision because they know that if you say the same thing over and over it saturates in your mind because all hypnosis is self hypnosis is all psychology man. Yes.
Luke Deighton 59:13
Even the word belief as liner right? You know, come on.
Harry Turner 59:18
Yeah, yeah, yes, yes. Yes. Because a belief is not the same as a truth but you know what, we talked about that earlier too. So I'm gonna leave it alone. Yeah, man, but we definitely gonna have to have more than one episode. That's That's first and foremost. But we have to stay in touch. Talking like that, you know, I mean, like, we have to stay in touch. But you know, you know, I'm saying
Luke Deighton 59:43
to us through for me, I'd love to come back, run it again and go even deeper and we just touched the surface. So yeah, I love you on stay connected, for sure. And we'll definitely touch base once we jump off and make sure we're all linked up and we can have chats because I feel like there's some real gold to mine. Yeah, blessed to be able to call your brother now. Amen. So, yeah,
Harry Turner 1:00:05
yeah, man. Uh, yeah. Look, outliers. See, again, synergy. I told you I wasn't very familiar with his brother, but not I, I feel like I grew up with him. I feel like I know I make sense. Again, the ego sees appearance. So it has to be familiar. It's it seeks out familiar ality. But the Spirit sees essence, you can't fool essence. That's why, you know, political people, politicians and whatnot these people can put on France and we feel bamboozled. And I'm say this humbly, because it's a realization I had to come to as well if I'm fooled is because I fooled myself first. Because when I look into my heart, and hear that intuitive awareness, and I listen to my intuitive awareness, as opposed to what my intellect is saying, it has never left. It has never led me wrong. It has never led me wrong. So when you move from head down to your heart, or you move from it to Sky level, you're essentially moving from the intellect, which seeks to know, but merely thinks and can never know. And you move to your intuitive awareness, True Knowingness. That's where the true knowing is, is the mind thinks and thinks that it knows. But it really thinks thinking that it knows represents pride, and then Pride goes before a fall, the mind has to be humbled. And then in that space of humility, it's willing to listen to the intuitive awareness because it gets tired, it gets tired pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses you understand, and he gets tired. And so in this life, either we get that knowledge and understanding that liberates us or we get that discomfort and pain that continues to show up and amplify based off of us responding to our fears. But that pain is only there to motivate us to get to our truth. And then that truth makes us free you born in alignment. Okay, brother, see, this is an inspiration man is you know, you've become a catalyst man, I feel energized right now. Like really, man, thank you so much for coming on here and blessing the stage brother, I'm gonna step off for just a second. And I want you to just, you know, say whatever, like, let people know how to contact you, I'm gonna put it at the bottom regardless, but I would love for you to tell the crowd how to how to contact you, and any other last messages you want to say to the people. And I'm gonna jump back on after that. Beautiful, man. Thank you. All
Luke Deighton 1:02:19
right, not blessed to be here. Thank you so much for having us. And thank you for listening. We'll put all the social links down below and feel free to connect anytime the dams always open, I'm always up to engage and chat and we've been very private for the last few years and and this year, we're really putting more and more out there and, and really want to impact and and create that change that we spoke about. And I'd love for you as they come along the journey. You have all the answers. They're all they're all in here. You know, we're we're blessed to be blessed to be in this physical body and have this experience of life and, but we also have all the answers and the truth that Georgia sits in here. And life I think puts roadblocks and challenges in our path and in our ways so that we can unlock more and more of that truth. For me, that's, you know, that's the journey that I'm on to continue to unlock more and more of the power that lies right in here and express that in the world and inspire others to do the same. So big love to you all. I'm blessed to be a part of that. It's so community now. And Gabriel,
Harry Turner 1:03:16
thank you, thank you. Well, I was talking my ass off and it was only able to Yeah, thank you for blessing the stage, man, thank you for coming on here. And just being a vessel of light. You know, I know that the listeners, I know that they feel this, like the this this episode is sharing the synergy. I know that it hit home for who he needed to hit home for, you know, and probably from beginning to end because that's the way I felt, you know. So I'm just grateful for the opportunity to share space with you. Likewise, brother,
Luke Deighton 1:03:54
thank you for having me on the call. I can't wait to do it again. Yes, sir.
Harry Turner 1:03:59
Yes, sir. Yo, Luke, Dayton. And I'm going to tell you outliers. Again, ya know, my mission is to assist others. In developing the audacity to live, unapologetically authentic, living your truth, lie it live in truth. And when you live in your truth, you become a beacon of light. And then when you become that beacon, unlike your very presence, that courage to shine that light as Ms. Williams is Miss Williams and said before, our very presence gives others permission to do the same. And so it's contagious. Its contagious, so continue to be that light outliers, be lit, Mad Love and respect. And I'll see y'all next time. As we continue another chapter of Is that so? I hope our journey today has left you with more than just thoughts but a call to live intentionally, live intentionally deeply, authentically and truthfully. The path of self discovery of Self knowledge is infinite elaborate where you Each turn reveals more of who we are and can be led this conversation via lantern in the dark guiding you back to yourself time and again until we meet next outlier. Continue to seek question and live in the profound truth that defines your existence. Agave and stay lit. They've been through
